Except that we don't...

As part of our 'new start' we agreed that we would plan the music 3 weeks ahead, taking note of any particular themes that the PP wished to highlight in that week's liturgy. In theory this is fine. In practice he often doesn't tell us in time, and recently the 'themes' have diverged quite radically from the actual content of the liturgy, not to mention being so divinely cerebral that it would take a greater talent than mine to see any musical connections at all. Example, for 11th Sunday of the Year "the Homily theme will be the mystery of God's call - calling us to be 'Co-workers of the Truth' as Christ's Priestly People". Oh, and apparently hymns such as 'Will you come and follow me' are not appropriate... so on one Sunday three hymns we have already chosen have been rejected -- 'Praise we our God with joy' is to replace 'Gather us in' (where, so I am told, the 'eucharistic theology is by no means satisfactory'), 'Lord accept the gifts we offer' instead of 'Will you come and follow me', and 'Love divine' or 'Jesus the very thought of thee' instead of 'Here I am, Lord'. (Anyone see a pattern emerging here?)
When I tackled him about this I was also roundly informed that 'Now in this Banquet' is 'deeply heretical' -- and so, apparently, are 'about half the hymns in "Laudate"'. Apparently 'the bishops are deeply concerned about this.'
Errm... Did I miss something, somewhere?
Last night was our annual Parish AGM (immediately following Mass) and despite my best efforts the PP wouldn't leave either me or the organist alone in pursuing the content of his letter -- meaning that I was in less control of my temper than I might have been given more time. At the end of a fairly hot discussion it was made very clear to me that we shouldn't bother our little heads about choosing the music -- just practice it. Or, presumably, be excommunicated for heresy?
A recent SSG observer at our liturgy commented that the music was OK (it wasn't one of our better days) but the presider was a cause for some concern -- rather uninspired and uninspiring. It seems the same infection is about to strike the music.
Yesterday evening I was seriously considering taking a holiday -- from the parish and possibly from the church as well. Both the organist and I face massive challenges in our working lives at the moment, and we really don't need this kind of aggro in the one area that should support all our other efforts. Now, I'm not so sure -- but still pretty baffled to find an appropriate or effective response.
I'm not looking for easy answers -- there aren't any, short (perhaps) of homicide -- but I would ask your prayers for me, for our organist in particular, and for the other members of our music group (including, ironically, our two most recent recruits aged 9 and 11 -- what will THEY make of these Victorian hymns?)