Quaeritor, I uphold your right not to choose sides. You have made statement, in full view of the forum members, which shows your interest in the topic. I have used the evidence of your interest to counter Southern Comforter's assertion that my "boring diatribes ... do not encourage others to enter the arena". If you think that me quoting your interest in any further submissions from me would amount to you taking sides, and if you don't wish to take sides, you might like to show no further interest of that kind (in full view of the forum members) which I can then use to defend myself from Southern Comfort's erroneous assertion.
I don't know the reason for your request that I send you a private message, but if it is for me to send historical references to you, then I'm loathe to send such a message. Why? Because I presume that the purpose of this forum is for (fairly) public debate - someone please correct me if I'm wrong - and I have no inclination to see threads becoming places where someone who bullies with ad hominem attacks, gets to drive debate underground into private messaging where it ceases to be a public debate, if any debate at all. Consequently, I am not willing to be cowed into private messaging on this topic, even if you are (although I repeat that I don't know the reason for your request). Having had no reply from Southern Comfort regarding my last points, I consider the discussion with him over until there is such a reply. Moreover, I also do not wish to discuss the topic further on the thread with someone who thinks nothing of requesting that I throw myself to the wolf without being willing to lift a finger in my defence. Thank you, NorthernTenor, for your public show of sympathy.
NorthernTenor wrote:Frankly, it astounds me that Paul has been given such leeway for so long. His comments here ... have an unwholesome influence on the intellectual and moral character of the board.
There can be no question of this. If we allow certain behaviour to persist on the part of one member, we should allow every other member to indulge in it or we run the risk of treating people inequitably. Should I be given anything but short shrift if I resorted to writing about Southern Comfort with the same kind of ad hominem, off-topic, fulsome paragraphs containing the same sort of matter that he has written about me?
NorthernTenor wrote:I can only assume that the continued tolerance shown to him reflects both the patience of our long-suffering moderators and his elevated standing in certain circles, including the board’s sponsoring body, of which he is an honorary life member.
That perhaps explain why he feels it in his power to dole out such treatment to a mere nobody like me.
NorthernTenor wrote:I don’t see why we should play the game on his cowardly terms.
Although his most recent outburst is not an example, Southern Comfort does have a custom of not naming people when talking about them deleteriously in paragraphs. I would be glad to see moderatorial disapproval of such behaviour on this forum.